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"Life's is not about how hard you hit, but how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward"
I am Natalia's daddy! My latest happenings as well as my lil' girls happenings will be posted here as I live them.

I like to read science fiction, fantasy as well as classics and comics. Always looking for recommendations. Like to play video games and board games. Love to watch old movies and shows, as I find them relaxing and entertaining. Last but not least. like to feed the birds and do some gardening.

Proud to be a US Navy Corpsman veteran and part of the Southwest Region Funeral Honor Guard.

" . . . and on the 8th day the Lord created the Corpsman and the Devil stood at attention."

"In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex . . ."

"Tell your story. That's the secret of immortality. The one true way to live forever. "

"We live as we dream. Alone"

"Courage is being scared to death...and saddling up anyway."

"Needling is what I do"

April 18, 2012

Disappointed

Divorce almost settled and I am very disappointed at the system and my attorney. My ex never suffered any consequences for her actions and even to the end the system always see it the way of the female. There is never the fathers side to be seen. The system is so one sided that anything told by the female is always seen as truth. My attorney didn't even bother to argue anything. He was too busy typing and joking with the other attorney over the whole matter.What bothered the most was that non of he attorneys saw it fair that I concur all medical costs for my daughter. My ex doesn't have to cover any costs and she doesn't even think is her responsibility to provide medical care for her daughter. That issue alone was a shocked that will never be forgotten. I also saw how any violations of the divorce term will not have any repercussions. So the other party is free to do as she wishes with no avenue for me to fix, other than paying outrageous attorney fees to argue simple things.

In the end it is over and I now know where I stand. I can breath a bit easier now. I know the multitude of calls from my ex complaining and harassing me will never end as long as her mental illness is not corrected. No attorney ever saw her mental condition as a harm to my daughter. I saw the harm personally. The false accusations, self medication and suicidal attempts in the past that she mentioned. Only time will now tell how my daughter will turn out. At least I have the ability to control that.