Been playing board games and doing puzzles with Natalia and she loves to do puzzles. I have managed to get some really good games thanks in part to the videos at the Dice Tower. Also in the sloooow process of putting together an all around game room downstairs.
Also, back to drill this week as I now find out am able to go due to this false case my ex-wife brought against me (see below). I will say I am very disappointed on this unit and its structure. Lots of new faces and I quickly saw many rather sit around and do nothing. I being the way I am found myself conducting many procedures with the very few hard workers of the unit. Also word is the Navy is changing to where units may deploy together.I know find myself deciding if I should re enlist another two years and continue to serve. Sadly seeing how the state of California treats single fathers let alone members of the military. For the welfare of my daughter, I may not be able to continue to serve. Sadly another will have to be courageous enough and have the commitment to step up.
Enough small talk! Many know on the tail end of my deployment I was served through email less than 24 hours notice to appear in court for what I came to find out later was accusations of sexual misconduct against my father as well as accusations that my father was a convicted felon among other stuff. My command was rather shocked not of the case but that a service member could be served like this and what a few days later find out the case was not pushed but ruled upon against federal law (Service Members Civil Act). But I was not surprised since living in California I already knew service members are not thought of highly. When I finished my deployment and started to investigate the matter it became apparent that my ex-wife had lied and in a sense paid of a psychiatrist to write a bogus story and lie about evidence. Fast forward to October 8 and I finally get my day in court after spending thousands and being treated like a criminal. The truth comes out where my ex-wife and her attorney (Steven Becker) pointed fingers at each other blaming the false accusations. I am still amazed two adults act in such a way and the legal system has no punishment. In the end I wasted 4 hours of another day on this and never was heard in court or had the pleasure to stand in front of the judge to get an apology. What happened was 20 minutes behind closed doors between the attorneys and judge and I go home. No idea what happened or outcome. I am guessing they realized the law was violated and the other attorney got to lie more and save face. I am amazed anyone can make such false claims and I be treated guilty and have to prove innocence. In the end not only did I find out everything was false since the supervisor at the mental health clinic told me and in his report stated my daughter was shy and not talkative. And the person whom they claim my father was is another person still in jail at this time. Both my ex-wife and her disgraceful attorney lied about this whole thing. Or as they said - "It was his/her idea". To put a 4 year old child through all this and a service member serving this country through these lies and no repercussion. I know am in the hopes that in public record there has been some action against this and again I will have to spend more money and time in court to hope to get some kind of punishment to these people for their actions or as they put it "idea".
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